Susie forwarded her personal reference letter to me, and I was so touched, I am posting it here:
I believe I met Rupa in 1988, or 1989, during what I call my "before-children" years! She lived and worked in a studio in Oakland, where my oldest friend, Kim Anno, also worked.
Rupa struck everyone as the ultimate "can-do" person. She just seemed to have so many skills, ingenuity, and confidence. I admired her.
Fast forward to 90 or 91.
I had a baby, and I also had a new book out. In those days, the publisher sent authors on quite an ambitious tour, 15 cities in about 30 days.
I asked Rupa if she had the flexibility to travel with me for a month as a both a nanny to Aretha and general book tour assistant.
We flew and drove everywhere, from Texas to Northern Canada, and I honestly don't know what I'd have done without her. There were so many new circumstances and unexpected transitions, new people every day... it was unbelievable. And her good spirits and patience kept me going, along with her practical way of getting things done, no matter how intimidating they might seem at first.
Her intelligence, sensitivity, and "making s something out of nothing" was what always astounded me. What a great heart she has.
I really can't tell you what her weak points were in those circumstances, because I was the one who was so "difficult," to tell you the truth! I dont' know how she could stand me by the end, I was so moody, i was nursing, I my hormones were nuts. She was one of the few people who could "handle" me- so I guess I'm the one with the "challenging personality," at least at that time. Hopefully age has mellowed me.
We talked a great deal about her family, her travels in India; I have fond memories of that. We both have family histories from that part of the world. She was an expert "gleaner," who could always shop and find things of the best possible value when everyone else would have given up. She is a great cook; she has remarkable taste in everything aesthetic.
I hope this is helpful!
Susie B...